“Since Christ suffered and underwent pain, you must have the same attitude he did; you must be ready to suffer, too. For remember, when your body suffers, sin loses its power.” 1 Peter 4:1 (TLB)
Pastor, let’s be honest: When you’re hurting, it’s hard to think about anyone else. That’s true of all of us—it’s human nature. When you’re in pain, everything in you wants comfort. You long for rest. You wish someone would just stop and care for you. And that’s completely normal.
But as a pastor, you’re not just called to endure pain—you’re called to minister through it.
Jesus models this for us on the cross. In his final, agonizing moments—while carrying the full weight of the world’s sin—Jesus looked around and saw others. He prayed for his executioners: “Father, forgive them. They don’t know what they’re doing” (Luke 23:34 GW). He gave assurance to a dying thief: “Today you will be with me in paradise” (Luke 23:43 GW). And he made sure his mother would be cared for.
Even while suffering more than we can imagine, Jesus wasn’t consumed by himself. He noticed the hurting around him—and responded with love.
Paul tells us to adopt the same attitude: “Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 2:5 NKJV).
That’s not easy. Especially when you're leading a church while carrying hidden pain of your own—grief, disappointment, anxiety, or spiritual exhaustion.
But with God’s grace, you can lift your eyes. You can choose to see the pain of your people. You can comfort others, even as you wait for comfort yourself.
And something happens when you do: Sin loses its grip. The self-centered pull of pain loosens. You become more like Jesus. And your suffering becomes sacred ground where healing begins—for you and for those you lead.
So as you start this week, pastor, take heart. Jesus sees your pain. He’s using it. And through it, he’s shaping you into a shepherd who reflects his own heart.
You’re not alone. You’re not forgotten. And your pain is not wasted.