
Pastor, ministry is a long walk—not a quick sprint.
And on Mondays, that walk can feel especially heavy. You poured yourself out yesterday—preaching, praying, encouraging, counseling, troubleshooting—and now you’re tired. Maybe you’re replaying moments from Sunday and wondering, Did that land? Did anyone hear what I was trying to say?
In moments like that, you need to remember that God never meant for you to walk alone.
The Bible often compares life to a walk, because life is a journey—we’re not sitting still. Throughout the New Testament, we are told to walk in wisdom, love, light, and obedience. We’re told to walk as Jesus walked.
And we’re also told to walk with other people—including in ministry.
Here are three reasons you, as a pastor, need people walking closely with you:
1. It’s safer.
Have you ever walked alone at night through a dark alley or down a lonely country road? It’s a little scary. But if you have another person with you, you feel safer.
The same is true in ministry.
When you walk alone as a pastor, you’re more vulnerable—to temptation, to discouragement, and to the lies of the enemy. But when you walk with trusted friends, mentors, and fellow leaders who know the real you, you’re safer. They notice when your pace changes. They recognize when your joy is fading. They can ask the questions no one else thinks to ask.
2. It’s supportive.
Life is not a 50-yard dash; it’s a marathon. Ministry is too. Walking with other people gives you the energy to keep on going until the end.
There will be Mondays when you feel like you have nothing left. That’s when you need a small circle that reminds you of your calling, prays you through the fog, and refuses to let you quit on a bad day. You were never meant to carry every burden in your church by yourself.
3. It’s smarter.
You learn more by walking with others than by walking alone. If you’re walking alone in the wrong direction, you may never realize it. But if you have a friend beside you, one of you is likely to recognize you’ve veered off the path and need to find the right direction.
The same goes for leadership decisions. When you’re too close to a situation—hurt by criticism, frustrated by conflict, or worn out by constant need—wise friends help you see clearly. They can point out blind spots, challenge unhealthy patterns, and remind you of what’s true when your emotions are loud.
Everybody has a longing for belonging, because God made us for relationships. That includes you, pastor. When you walk alongside other Christians in community—especially other leaders who understand your load—you find that longing satisfied.
And as you walk with them, remember this: You’re never just walking with people. You’re walking with Jesus too.
So this Monday, don’t take another step alone. Text a friend. Call another pastor. Invite someone into your journey.
Keep walking—with others, and with Christ.