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Three Enemies of Pastoral Confidence

Pastor, don’t let doubt stop you from what God has clearly called you to do. Doubt is the opposite of faith. Scripture says, “Without faith it is impossible to please God” (Hebrews 11:6 NIV). And Paul reminds us, “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23 NIV).

Once you’ve set a God-given goal, you need to move forward in faith.

But here’s what often happens. As soon as you set your goal, the enemy starts whispering questions.

Is this really God’s will?

What if I’m wrong?

Do I really deserve this?

Am I being selfish or prideful?

I once saw a Peanuts cartoon that perfectly captured this struggle. Charlie Brown stands on the pitcher’s mound. A pop fly is coming down. If he catches it, they win the game. He prays, “Please let me catch it. Please let me be the hero.” Then, as the ball drops, he starts second-guessing himself. “Do I deserve to be the hero? Is baseball really that important? Lots of kids don’t even have a place to sleep.”

The ball hits his glove and falls to the ground.

When Linus asks how he missed such an easy catch, Charlie Brown says, “I prayed myself out of it.”

I know there have been times I’ve prayed myself out of great goals and dreams.

You must have confidence that God wants to work through you. “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:6 NIV). If God put the desire there and you’ve surrendered your will to his, you can trust him with it.

Joshua struggled with this. After Moses’ death, he felt inadequate. So God gave him a repeated command: “Be strong and courageous” (Joshua 1:6 NIV). Four times in that chapter God tells him to be strong and courageous.

Why?

Because fear keeps you in the desert. Not problems. Not obstacles. Fear.

Fear keeps you from becoming all God wants you to be. Fear keeps your church from becoming what God designed it to become.

Here are three common things that rob pastors of confidence.

1. Experience

Experience can be a blessing, but it can also become baggage.

We say, “Yes, I know God wants me to do this, but I’ve tried before. It hasn’t worked before. I’ve failed too many times.”

Sometimes inexperience is an advantage because you don’t yet know what “can’t” be done.

Past defeats, old hurts, and previous mistakes can quietly control your future if you let them. Don’t allow yesterday’s disappointments to dictate tomorrow’s obedience.

Never let bad memories control the future.

2. Emotions

Too many leaders trust their moods.

I don’t feel like it. 

I’m too tired.

I’m inadequate.

There have been Sundays when I didn’t feel like preaching. But Scripture says, “Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season” (2 Timothy 4:2 NIV). Faithfulness is not based on feelings.

One of the hardest parts of ministry is keeping your emotional tank filled with the love, peace, joy, and confidence of God so you have something to give away. If you don’t manage your emotions, they will manage you.

And here’s a simple rule: Never make a major decision when you’re down. When you’re discouraged or depleted, postpone big decisions if you can. Decisions made in depression are rarely wise ones.

Don’t let your moods rob you of your calling.

3. Excuses

Excuses are rational lies. They sound reasonable, but they aren’t rooted in faith.

I don’t have the time.

I don’t have the money.

I don’t have the staff.

I don’t have the training.

Scripture says, “You do not have because you do not ask God” (James 4:2 NIV). If you lack something necessary to fulfill God’s vision, ask him for it. God is not limited by what you currently lack.

Excuses shrink vision. Faith expands it.

Pastor, if you have predetermined to do God’s will—if you’ve honestly said, “God, I want what you want”—then you can trust the desires he places in your heart.

Don’t let experience, emotions, or excuses rob you of confidence.

Step forward in faith.

Be strong and courageous.

And watch what God does through a leader who refuses to stay in the desert.

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