
Pastor, have you noticed how easy it is for your dreams to shrink over time?
You didn’t start ministry with a small vision. But pressure, disappointment, and criticism sometimes shrink your dreams.
The Living Bible paraphrase says, “Now glory be to God, who by his mighty power at work within us is able to do far more than we would ever dare to ask or even dream of—infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, or hopes” (Ephesians 3:20).
Over the years, I’ve noticed you can often tell where someone is in ministry by how they relate to dreaming. I think you can categorize people into ministry in five areas.
As you read, don’t rush past these ideas. Just ask, Where am I right now? Then ask, What would a faithful next step look like this week?
1. Those with no dream
For many people, their only goal in life is just to make it through the day—just to make it home.
Pastor, this can happen in ministry without you even noticing. You are not lazy. You are carrying a lot. But when your only goal becomes survival, you start living from crisis to crisis instead of leading with faith.
One time Jesus came to a man on the side of the street and said, “What do you want me to do for you?” (Mark 10:51 NLT). That’s a good place to start again when it comes to your ministry dreams.
There are three results when you don’t have a dream:
Frustration: You move from crisis to crisis, reacting instead of acting.
Boredom: It gets hard to see why you should get up in the morning.
Regrets: You start collecting “if only…” thoughts.
Don’t overcomplicate your next step. If this is you, set aside 15 quiet minutes this week and answer this in one sentence: “What do I want God to do in me, and through our church, this year?”
If that’s you right now, don’t be embarrassed. Just be honest—and start there.
2. Those who have a low dream
A lot of pastors drift into this without meaning to. The dream sounds sensible. It sounds safe. But it doesn’t stretch your faith.
Why do we do this? Three reasons:
Dreams make us accountable. The moment you say it, the pressure is on.
Fear of failure. You think, What if I don’t achieve it?
Fear of criticism. Others may laugh. They may misunderstand your motives.
So here’s the place to start: Get honest about what you’re afraid of.
Take 10 minutes and finish this sentence: “I fear ___________ when I think of chasing a bolder vision.”
Then ask yourself: What would a dream look like that is realistic, but still requires faith?
If that’s you, you don’t need a flashy vision statement. You just need one step that requires faith.
3. Those who have the wrong dream
Pastor, before you invest your life in the attainment of a certain dream, you need to find out if what you want is worthwhile.
A lot of people spend years climbing the ladder of success, only to get above the clouds and realize the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.
And I have to tell you, one of the tragedies I see in church life is this: People with tremendous talent, tremendous ability, and tremendous potential giving their first-class allegiance to a second-class cause.
Some day you will stand before the Lord and he will say, “What did you do with your life?” That’s why you have to be careful here.
There is one dream that is never worth investing your life in: trying to impress other people. It just isn’t worth it.
So slow down long enough to ask two questions:
Who am I trying to impress?
If nobody applauded this, would I still believe it was from God?
4. Those who have a vague dream
Pastor, this one is more common than you might think.
You may have a great desire: I want to use my life in serving God. I want to give my life for God. I want to make my life count. But you’re still vague about the specifics. You’ve never really thought it through and written down something that says, “This is what I’m going to do with my life. This is where I’m going to pour my energy.”
Jesus was the most goal-directed person who ever lived. When he was 12 years old, he already knew where he was going. He said, “I must be about my Father’s business” (Luke 2:49 KJV).
And at the end of his life, he said, “It is finished!” (John 19:30 NLT). Those are bookends of a successful life!
So here’s your next step if your dream feels blurry: Write it down.
Take 10 minutes and finish this sentence: “In this season, I believe God wants me to focus on . . . ”
5. Those with God’s dream
This is the pastor who knows where he’s headed because he’s gotten a dream from God.
That doesn’t mean the dream is loud. It doesn’t mean it’s easy. And it doesn’t mean it’s instantly clear. Most of the time, God gives you what I call a “Polaroid vision.” You stand there watching it develop, and over time it gets clearer and clearer.
But you do know this much: You’re not just trying to impress people. You’re not just trying to survive. You’re not just chasing something safe. You’re trying to do the will of God.
And when that’s your goal, you stop asking, “What’s the easiest thing?” and you start asking the right question: “What is God’s will?”
You don’t have to figure out your whole future. You’ve just got to get quiet enough to hear the next step. Because God is “able to do far more than we would ever dare to ask or even dream of—infinitely beyond our highest prayers, desires, thoughts, or hopes.”
So don’t settle for no dream. Don’t settle for a low dream. Don’t chase the wrong dream. Don’t live with a vague dream.
Ask God for his dream.
Then take one step of obedience.