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Jesus Is Calling You to Wholeness

Pastor, ministry can pull your life into pieces.

You can feel the pull to be one person in the pulpit, another in a meeting, another at home, and another when you’re tired, criticized, or alone. Jesus calls you back to wholeness.

If you’re going to live like Jesus, you’ve got to adopt the values he had—values like integrity and humility.

Most people think integrity means being honest. And telling the truth is part of integrity, but integrity means more than that. Integrity comes from the word integral, meaning “wholeness” or “all together.”

In mathematics, an integer is a whole number, one complete unit. In the same way, an integrated life is a whole life. It’s the opposite of a compartmentalized life.

Integrity means you don’t act one way with your congregation, another way with your staff, another way with your family, and another way when no one can see you. It means what people see in public is connected to who you are in private.

Jesus said, “If you are filled with light, with no dark corners, then your whole life will be radiant” (Luke 11:36 NLT).

When you lead with integrity, you bring light into dark places, not because you’re perfect, but because you’re not hiding in the dark. You let God bring every part of your life under his care.

Jesus didn’t just call his people to be light. He also called them to be salt. The Living Bible paraphrase says, “You are the world’s seasoning, to make it tolerable. If you lose your flavor, what will happen to the world?” (Matthew 5:13).

Pastor, your church doesn’t need a flawless leader. It needs a faithful one. Your people need to see a life held together by Jesus, rooted in him, steady because of him.

Jesus lived with integrity. He consistently brought salt and light into the world. He also lived with humility.

Humility is not false modesty. It is not denying your gifts or pretending you don’t have influence. Humility is dependence—dependence on God.

Jesus said, “God blesses those who . . . realize their need for him” (Matthew 5:3 NLT). That’s humility.

When you don’t depend on God, you try to control what only God can control. But when you depend on God, you hold your ministry with an open hand. You don’t have to carry every outcome, fix every person, or manage every opinion.

That kind of humility gives you peace, because you’re relying on God, not yourself.

When you live with integrity and depend on God in humility, people notice. You’re not trying to draw attention to yourself. You’re giving them a life that points beyond itself.

Ask God for an undivided heart this week. Let him fill the dark corners with light. Lead with integrity. Walk in humility. And when people see the difference, point them to Jesus.

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Jesus Is Calling You to Wholeness

Jesus Is Calling You to Wholeness

Pastor, ministry can pull your life into pieces.You can feel the pull to be one person in the pulpit, another in a meeting, another at home, and another when you’re tired, criticized, or alone. Jesus calls you back to wholeness.If you’re going to live like Jesus, you’ve got to adopt the values he had—values like integrity and humility.Most people think integrity means being honest. And telling the truth is part of integrity, but integrity means more than that. Integrity comes from the word integral, meaning “wholeness” or “all together.”In mathematics, an integer is a whole number, one complete unit. In the same way, an integrated life is a whole life. It’s the opposite of a compartmentalized life.Integrity means you don’t act one way with your congregation, another way with your staff, another way with your family, and another way when no one can see you. It means what people see in public is connected to who you are in private.Jesus said, “If you are filled with light, with no dark corners, then your whole life will be radiant” (Luke 11:36 NLT).When you lead with integrity, you bring light into dark places, not because you’re perfect, but because you’re not hiding in the dark. You let God bring every part of your life under his care.Jesus didn’t just call his people to be light. He also called them to be salt. The Living Bible paraphrase says, “You are the world’s seasoning, to make it tolerable. If you lose your flavor, what will happen to the world?” (Matthew 5:13).Pastor, your church doesn’t need a flawless leader. It needs a faithful one. Your people need to see a life held together by Jesus, rooted in him, steady because of him.Jesus lived with integrity. He consistently brought salt and light into the world. He also lived with humility.Humility is not false modesty. It is not denying your gifts or pretending you don’t have influence. Humility is dependence—dependence on God.Jesus said, “God blesses those who . . . realize their need for him” (Matthew 5:3 NLT). That’s humility.When you don’t depend on God, you try to control what only God can control. But when you depend on God, you hold your ministry with an open hand. You don’t have to carry every outcome, fix every person, or manage every opinion.That kind of humility gives you peace, because you’re relying on God, not yourself.When you live with integrity and depend on God in humility, people notice. You’re not trying to draw attention to yourself. You’re giving them a life that points beyond itself.Ask God for an undivided heart this week. Let him fill the dark corners with light. Lead with integrity. Walk in humility. And when people see the difference, point them to Jesus.
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Start with the Person, Not the Empty Slot

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Every August the same stress lands in a pastor's inbox. The nursery is short. The parking team needs bodies. Someone has to run kids' check-in before the fall ministry campaign launch, and the list of empty slots is a lot longer than the list of people who've said yes.So we do what feels natural. We stand up and beg. We print the sign-up sheet, announce the gaps, and hope enough hands go up to keep the machine running one more season.I understand the instinct. But after years of leading a church, I became convinced that this is exactly the wrong place to start.Don't start with the empty slotMost churches recruit the same way. We look at the org chart, find the holes, and go hunting for warm bodies to fill them: We need more Sunday school workers, so go get some. We're down three greeters; who's available?I call that the institutional approach, and it treats people like interchangeable parts. The program comes first, and the person exists to keep it running.Here's the problem: When you start with the slot, you'll always be short, and the people you talk into serving rarely last. They said yes to plug a gap, not to answer a calling. By spring they're burned out, and you're back to begging.Start with the person insteadAt Saddleback we flipped the question. Instead of asking, "How do we fill this slot?" we asked, "How has God made this person?"We interviewed people for ministry based on what we called their SHAPE (spiritual gifts, heart, abilities, personality, and experiences). Paul put it this way: "Try to have a sane estimate of your capabilities by the light of the faith that God has given you" (Romans 12:3 PHILLIPS).That was the step I got most excited about, because almost nobody was doing it. We weren't there to plug a program; we were there to help a person discover what God had already built them to do.Make that one shift, and everything about recruiting changes. Now you're looking at a room full of ministers who simply need help finding where they fit.A gift is never for the one who holds itWhen you help people find their SHAPE, you're not just solving a staffing problem; you're handing them a purpose."Each one, as a good manager of God's different gifts, must use for the good of others the special gift he has received from God" (1 Peter 4:10 GNT). Notice who the gift is for. It isn't for you; it's for the other person.That's why someone serving in their SHAPE almost never burns out the way a slot-filler does. Doing the very thing God wired you to do fills you up even as it pours out to everyone around you.The ministries you'd never have plannedThere's a payoff I didn't expect. Give people room to serve out of their SHAPE, and they'll start ministries you never would have dreamed up.I'll tell you the truth: I didn't start most of Saddleback's ministries. They were launched by people in our church who felt called by God to meet a need they saw. My job, and my staff's job, was to help those leaders succeed.If I had only recruited people into the slots I could see, we would have missed most of what God wanted to do. Your church is no different. The person you're about to guilt into the nursery may be carrying a ministry you can't even picture yet.Keep the real goal in front of youIn a busy season it's easy to forget why we do any of this. The point was never to keep the programs staffed. The goal is to develop disciples, and the programs are just tools that help us do it.So before you print the sign-up sheet this fall, ask a different question. Don’t ask, “Who can fill this?” Instead, ask, “Who has God already shaped for this, and how do I help them find it?” Fill your slots with people who were made for them, and you won't just survive the fall. You'll build something that outlasts the season.
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