Pastors know the weight of guiding people in worship each week. But before you can lead others, it’s worth remembering what kind of worship actually pleases God. God doesn’t want just a part of your life—he wants all of you. He asks for all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength. He is not interested in half-hearted commitment, partial obedience, or the leftovers of your time and money. He desires your full devotion.
A Samaritan woman once tried to debate Jesus on the best time, place, and style for worship. Jesus replied that those external issues are not the point. Where you worship is not as important as why you worship and how much of yourself you offer to God when you worship. There is a right and a wrong way to worship. The Bible says, “Let us be grateful and worship God in a way that will please him” (Hebrews 12:28 GNT).
The kind of worship that pleases God has four characteristics:
People often say, “I like to think of God as . . .” and then describe the kind of God they’d like to worship. But we cannot create our own comfortable or culturally acceptable image of God and then worship it. That is idolatry.
Worship must be based on the truth of Scripture, not our opinions about God. Jesus told the Samaritan woman, “True worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him.” (John 4:23 ESV). To “worship . . . in . . . truth” means worshiping God as he is truly revealed in the Bible.
For those in ministry, this means keeping worship rooted in Scripture rather than in shifting preferences or trends. Congregations will follow the model set before them—so let them see a pattern shaped by God’s Word.
When Jesus said we must worship “in spirit,” he wasn’t referring to the Holy Spirit but to your spirit. Made in God’s image, you are a spirit who resides in a body, and God designed your spirit to communicate with him. Worship is your spirit responding to God’s Spirit.
When Jesus said, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul” (Matthew 22:37 NIV), he meant that worship must be genuine and heartfelt. It isn’t just saying the right words; you must mean what you say. Heartless praise is no praise at all—it’s an insult to God. “People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7 NIV).
Since worship involves delighting in God, it engages your emotions—but they must be genuine, not faked. God hates hypocrisy. We can worship God imperfectly, but we cannot worship him insincerely.
For pastors, this is an important reminder. It’s tempting to measure worship by how people seem to respond in a service. But God is looking past appearances and focusing on the heart.
Jesus’ command to “love the Lord your God . . . with all your mind” (Matthew 22:37 NIV) is repeated four times in the New Testament. God is not pleased with thoughtless singing of hymns, perfunctory praying of clichés, or careless exclamations of “Praise the Lord” when we can’t think of anything else to say. If worship is mindless, it is meaningless. Jesus called thoughtless worship “vain repetitions” (Matthew 6:7 KJV).
Even biblical terms can become tired clichés from overuse. That’s why it helps to read Scripture in different translations and paraphrases—to expand your expressions of worship.
Ministry leaders can serve their people well by modeling fresh language in prayers and songs, encouraging expressions of worship that are specific, meaningful, and clear.
“Offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship” (Romans 12:1 NIV).
Why does God want your body? Because without your body you can’t do anything on this planet. In eternity, you’ll get a new, improved, upgraded body, but while you’re on earth, God says, “Give me what you’ve got!” He’s being practical about worship.
In worship we are to offer our bodies as living sacrifices. The problem with a living sacrifice is that it can crawl off the altar—and we often do. But real worship costs. David knew this and said, “I will not offer to the LORD my God sacrifices that have cost me nothing” (2 Samuel 24:24 GNT).
One thing worship costs us is our self-centeredness. You cannot exalt God and yourself at the same time.
This is especially important for pastors. Worship is not just what happens on stage or in a service—it’s also in the sacrifices of humility, generosity, and service throughout the week. That’s what teaches a congregation the most.