
Some of you have had a tough year. You’ve endured criticism. Maybe you’ve lost a job. Maybe you’re walking through a rough patch in your marriage.
Now comes Thanksgiving. Can we thank God even when times are tough?
Yes, we can.
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV)
This verse doesn’t say to give thanks for everything. It says to give thanks in every circumstance. People misinterpret that all the time.
You don’t have to thank God for evil. If a loved one was murdered, I wouldn’t be thankful. If my wife was sick, I wouldn’t be thankful. The Bible never tells us to be thankful for evil. But in every circumstance—no matter how bad it is—you can thank God because:
His purpose is bigger than your problem
He will give you the power to overcome your problem
You will grow through the experience if you allow him to help you grow
You may not be thankful for evil or difficulty, but you can be thankful despite evil or difficulty.
How can you be grateful when you’ve lost your job, your health, or your spouse? You shift your focus. Instead of looking at what you’ve lost, look at what you still have. And you still have a lot.
For one thing—you’re alive.
So ask yourself: What am I taking for granted? Your health? Your freedom? Your relationships? There’s an old hymn that says, “Count your blessings, name them one by one.” We need to do that. Make lists of what you’re thankful for—your family, your friends, your ministry, anything God has given you. When times are tough, that’s when you most need to remember what God has provided.
Becoming truly grateful may be the healthiest change you make all year. It’s better than any diet or exercise plan. That’s because love isn’t the healthiest emotion—gratitude is. When you’re thankful despite your circumstances, you’re more resistant to illness and stress.
And remember this: You can’t find God’s will for your life when you’re ungrateful.
Read this part of 1 Thessalonians 5:18 again: “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will.” If you’re not living a grateful life—despite your circumstances—you’re outside of God’s will. It’s that simple.