
“We loved you so much that we shared with you not only God’s Good News but our own lives, too.” 1 Thessalonians 2:8 (NLT)
Pastor, you don’t just preach the Good News—you embody it. Every week, you stand as Christ’s ambassador to your congregation and to your community. And the heart of that calling is simple: Love people deeply.
Why? Because God is love. And when his ambassadors show anything less, the message gets distorted.
Paul gives us three ways to put that love into practice:
1. Share your life with people who need you.
Paul wrote, “We loved you so much that we shared with you . . . our own lives, too” (1 Thessalonians 2:8 NLT).
Pastoring isn’t just sermon prep and Sunday services. It’s hospital rooms, funerals, counseling moments, hallway conversations, and the quiet prayers you whisper over the people God has entrusted to you. Real love shows up. It enters the mess. It sits with the hurting. It steps toward people, not away from them.
You’ve probably learned by now that ministry rarely fits neatly inside office hours. But every time you give yourself away in love, you reflect the heart of Jesus.
2. Treat every person with dignity.
Peter wrote in the Message paraphrase, “Treat everyone you meet with dignity” (1 Peter 2:17). And later in the same book of the Bible, he wrote, “Do it with gentleness and respect” (1 Peter 3:15–16 GNT).
Pastor, you meet people from every background—different temperaments, different stories, different expectations, and sometimes very different opinions. Some are encouraging. Some are challenging. Some are critics.
But Christ’s ambassadors don’t get to be disrespectful—not even when others are.
Respect doesn’t mean you agree with everyone. It means you honor the image of God in everyone. And in a culture of outrage, that kind of dignity shines like a beacon.
3. Build bridges wherever you can.
Paul said, “I try to find common ground with everyone” (1 Corinthians 9:22 NLT).
You do this every week—whether you’re preaching to people across generations, navigating cultural tensions, or leading a staff with diverse personalities.
Bridge-building is pastoral work. It helps people drop their defenses. It creates space for the gospel to take root. And it allows Jesus to meet people where they are.
And here’s the promise: Jesus sees your love. He’ll reward it.
“Remember that the Lord will give you as a reward what he has kept for his people”
(Colossians 3:23–24 GNT).
Pastor, nothing you do in love is wasted—not the hard conversations, not the late-night prayers, not the moments you choose patience over frustration, and not the quiet sacrifices no one else ever sees.
You are Christ’s ambassador. And your love is making more of a difference than you know.