Pastor, you can’t have opportunity without opposition. When you’re leading, sooner or later you’ll be ridiculed or face resistance for your plans, or even have rumors spread about you. This opposition may come from inside your church or elsewhere. Whatever opposition you’re facing, Nehemiah 4 gives you a field manual for leading through pushback without losing your calling or your cool.
Nehemiah led effectively even through opposition. Here are six ways he responded that you can use in your own ministry this week.
“Then I prayed, ‘Hear us, our God, for we are being mocked. May their scoffing fall back on their own heads, and may they themselves become captives in a foreign land! Do not ignore their guilt. Do not blot out their sins, for they have provoked you to anger here in the presence of the builders’” (Nehemiah 4:4–5 NLT).
When Nehemiah was being opposed, he didn’t bottle up his feelings or lash out at his opposition. Instead, he went to God to let off steam. When you’re ridiculed, don’t suppress it; confess it. In fact, the greater the opposition, the more you need to pray. Don’t take it out on people; talk it out with God.
“But we prayed to our God and guarded the city day and night to protect ourselves” (Nehemiah 4:9 NLT).
Prayer and prudence go together. Think of it like this: It’s fine to lay in bed at night and pray, “Protect me from burglars.” But you also need to get up and lock your door! In ministry, prayerfully rely on God when you’re being opposed—but also be aware of the strength of your opposition and take practical precautions when you need to.
“So I placed armed guards behind the lowest parts of the wall in the exposed areas. I stationed the people to stand guard by families, armed with swords, spears, and bows” (Nehemiah 4:13 NLT).
Good leaders know where they—and the people they lead—are vulnerable. And they work to reinforce those weak points. Nehemiah posted people around the wall in family groups so they could support each other. Build up the small groups in your church so that your people will have spiritual families that support each other through difficult times.
“But from then on, only half my men worked while the other half stood guard with spears, shields, bows, and coats of mail. The officers stationed themselves behind the people of Judah” (Nehemiah 4:16 NLT).
Nehemiah refused to abandon his God-given mission to chase critics. He addressed his opposition in prudent, practical ways, but he didn’t become distracted by it. In the same way, don’t let your opposition distract you. Keep building what God has told you to build.
“Then as I looked over the situation, I called together the nobles and the rest of the people and said to them, ‘Don’t be afraid of the enemy! Remember the Lord, who is great and glorious, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes!’” (Nehemiah 4:14 NLT).
When your church is under pressure—from within the church or from outside—your job is to raise morale. Raise people’s eyes off of the opposition and point them to the Lord. Fear shrinks when leaders help people “remember the Lord.”
“When our enemies heard that we knew of their plans and that God had frustrated them, we all returned to our work on the wall” (Nehemiah 4:15 NLT).
Persistence is a leadership superpower. It’s easy to let opposition stall your obedience. But outlast whatever opposition you’re facing. Return to the wall—to the work God has called you to—again and again.
Take some time this week to name one vulnerable area in your ministry and take steps to strengthen it. Write out a simple prayer you can return to whenever criticism comes. And remind your team of at least one reason to “remember the Lord” in this season, so together you can keep building what God has called you to do.