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Change is inevitable. During the last few decades, the speed of change in the communities where we serve has grown exponentially. We’ve seen it all around us, including our own communities. In this quickly changing environment, we want our ministries to be relevant—not so we get invited to speak at conferences or get the praise of our ministry friends, but so that we reach more people for Jesus. Acts 13:36 is one of my favorite verses. “For David served God’s purposes in his own time, and then he died” (GNT). David did the timeless—God’s purposes—in an ever-changing world. That’s always been my prayer for my life. I want to serve God’s unchanging purposes in my generation. Our message never changes. God calls us to “contend earnestly for the faith that was once for all time handed down to the saints” (Jude 1:3 NASB). Our mission isn’t to make the Bible relevant. It is already relevant. But the way we communicate the unchanging message of the Bible in today’s changing world can become irrelevant. How does irrelevance happen? Irrelevance isn’t just something that affects churches. Every organization can become irrelevant when the speed of cultural change surpasses its rate of organizational growth. The faster the culture changes, the easier it is to become irrelevant. I had the privilege of having Peter Drucker, the father of modern management, as a mentor for the last 30 years of his life. One time I asked him, “How often does a rapidly growing organization need to change its structure?” He suggested changing the structure every time the organization grows by 45 percent. At the time, that was a problem for Saddleback. For the first few years of its existence, the church grew by 47 percent each year. That means we needed to re-structure the church every year. The structure that worked at 50 didn’t work at 150. The structure we had at 500 didn’t work at 1,000. The DNA of Relevance Relevant leadership for a pastor and relevant ministry for a church won’t happen by accident. It’s a choice. You’ll need to deal constantly with three factors to stay relevant:

Organizational culture
Personal culture
Congregational emotions

All three are important as you seek to serve God’s purposes in your generation. You’ll need to make three decisions to stay relevant—one for each of those factors. Develop a ‘lab’ mentality Laboratories experiment. Your church should never stop experimenting. And when you do, don’t be afraid to fail. If you fail, simply try something else. Sometimes you’ll have to try 99 things that don’t work only to find success with the 100th. If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll become irrelevant. Yesterday’s solutions won’t work tomorrow. Never stop learning Growing organizations require growing leaders. The moment you stop growing, your organization stops growing. All leaders are learners. Ecclesiastes 10:10 says, “If the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed, but skill will bring success” (NIV). It isn’t dedication or desire that brings success. It’s skill. It’s like farming. You can work from sunup to sundown, but if you’re raising tomatoes and using a wheat harvester, you’ll get nowhere. Or if you’re growing wheat but using a corn harvester, you’ll struggle. Skill brings success. A sharp ax makes woodcutting easier than a dull one requiring extra swings. Work smarter first, then work harder. You’re never wasting your time when you’re sharpening your ax. So always keep learning. Read articles like this. Read books. Go to conferences. Take a class. You won’t stay relevant if you stop learning. Acknowledge the grief Your church can’t grow without change. There’s also no change without loss and no pain without grief. You must let go of the old to grab onto the new. Sometimes when there’s pushback on church changes, it’s because people are mourning. They aren’t angry at you (though it may seem like it). They’re grieving the changes that are happening in their church family. Grief is good. It’s how we get through the transitions of life. We need to go through all the stages of grief, including anger. Grief over the changes in your church won’t kill your church. Fear, resentment, and pride will. A wise pastor understands the emotions of the people he is leading. Let your congregation grieve, and then honor the past without perpetuating it. Don’t confuse relevance with style either. Styles change just like everything else. I’ve seen a number of ministry styles come and go during my ministry. Build your ministry not on a style but on the purposes of God. They’ll never change.

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Who Is Watching Out for You?

“A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NLT)Pastor, you probably know what it’s like to watch over others while quietly feeling unseen yourself. You help people stay steady in temptation, grief, conflict, and doubt. You pray for them, counsel them, and carry burdens you cannot always share.So here is a Monday-morning question worth asking: Who is watching out for you?When you go on vacation, you ask someone to keep an eye on the house. That is wisdom. But in ministry, it is easy to let the “watching out” stop with everyone else. And when a pastor becomes isolated, discouragement can deepen, temptations get louder, and blind spots grow.Scripture gives a better way: “Look out for one another's interests, not just for your own” (Philippians 2:4 GNT). God intends for the family of God to be a protective gift, not just a place we serve.Ecclesiastes calls it a braided cord. Strength comes from connection. Not performative connection. Not “I have plenty of people around me.” Real, honest, mutual care.Pastor, you were not meant to stand alone.Here’s a simple encouragement for this week: Choose one trusted person and invite a real check-in. Not a ministry update. A soul check. The Lord often protects pastors through faithful friends who lovingly “look out” when you cannot see what is happening in your own blind spots.You are better together.

Lead with Your Ears First

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” James 1:19 (NIV)Pastor, have you noticed how hard it is to be heard these days?Conversations move fast. Opinions move faster. Everyone has something to say—and most people are ready to say it before anyone else finishes.And if we’re not careful, that hurried pace can slip into our leadership.After a long Sunday, you may walk into Monday already carrying frustration. A critical comment. A tense hallway exchange. A leadership disagreement that didn’t resolve. When you’re tired, it doesn’t take much to spark irritation.That’s why James’s words are so timely for church leaders: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19 NIV).Notice the order:Quick to listenSlow to speakSlow to become angryIn ministry, listening is more than a communication skill. It’s a pastoral discipline. When you truly listen to a staff member, a volunteer, or a hurting church member, you’re modeling the patience of Christ. You’re saying, “You matter enough for me to slow down.”Anger in leadership doesn’t always look explosive. Some pastors are what you might call “skunks.” When they’re upset, everyone knows it. The room fills with tension. Words come quickly and sharply.Others are “turtles.” They retreat into their shells. The frustration simmers quietly. Nothing is said—but nothing is resolved either.Both styles can wound a church. Both need the same remedy: Slow down and listen first.Listening forces humility. It creates space for understanding. It lowers the temperature in the room. And often, it reveals that what first felt like defiance was really confusion, fear, or hurt.Pastor, your people don’t need a reaction. They need a shepherd.So before you respond to that email. Before you correct that staff member. Before you step into that difficult conversation—pause.Ask one more question. Pray one short prayer.Take one slow breath. Be quick to listen. Be slow to speak. And you may find your anger softening into wisdom.That kind of leadership reflects the heart of Christ. And your church will feel the difference.

Before You Lead, Be Still

“Jesus often slipped away to be alone so he could pray.” Luke 5:15–16 (NCV)Pastor, after a full Sunday of preaching, praying, counseling, and carrying the needs of others, Monday can feel strangely quiet.And strangely heavy.In a world of constant pressure and ministry demands, prayer is more than a discipline; it’s your lifeline.Jesus understood that. The Gospels show him repeatedly stepping away from the noise and expectations to be alone with the Father. “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed” (Mark 1:35 NIV). And Luke tells us this wasn’t occasional—it was his rhythm. Crowds grew. Needs multiplied. But “Jesus often slipped away to be alone so he could pray” (Luke 5:15–16 NCV).If the Son of God needed unhurried time with the Father, how much more do you?You may think, I don’t have time. The meetings are waiting. The emails are stacking up. Next Sunday is already coming.But you have nothing lasting to give your church if you’re running on empty.God doesn’t just call you to shepherd others. He calls you to let him shepherd you.“Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10 NCV). Stillness isn’t weakness. It’s trust. It’s the quiet confession that God is God—and you are not.So carve out a small space today. Not to prepare a message. Not to plan a strategy. Just to listen.Sit before God and ask, “Father, what do you want to say to me?”You may sense a gentle nudge. A Scripture coming to mind. A quiet correction. Or simply a deep breath of peace that reminds you you’re not carrying this ministry alone.And if worry crowds your thoughts—about your family, church attendance, leadership conflicts, finances—let God redirect your attention to his Word. Anchor your mind there instead of spiraling through scenarios.Pastor, God wants to speak to you. Not just through you. He isn’t waiting for you to perform. He’s inviting you to be present. Step away for a moment. Let him refill what Sunday poured out.Then return to your calling, not depleted, but renewed.

How to Help Members Feel Like They Belong

Joining your church does not automatically make someone feel like they belong.People need more than their name on a membership roll. They need to feel welcomed, wanted, recognized, affirmed, and celebrated. They need to feel special.When a church is small, you may be able to do this informally. But as your church grows, you’ll need to create intentional moments that say publicly: “You are now one of us.”Celebrate New Beginnings PubliclyBaptism is an obvious example. When I was pastor at Saddleback, baptisms were always big celebrations—filled with laughter, applause, and shouts of joy. We took a photograph of each person just before baptism and later presented it in a beautiful leather-bound certificate. It became something people proudly displayed.When Saddleback was much smaller, we rented a nearby country club every three months and hosted a new members banquet. Each new member shared a brief testimony. Older members paid for their meals. I rarely made it through one of those evenings without tears. Hearing stories of changed lives reminds your church why it exists.For years, Kay and I hosted a monthly Pastor’s Chat in our home for new members and guests. It was simple hospitality—an opportunity to meet face-to-face and ask questions. Those evenings built hundreds of lasting relationships.Hospitality grows a healthy church.There are many simple ways to make members feel special:Send birthday cardsRecognize first anniversaries of membershipCelebrate life events in your newsletterFeature testimonies in servicesHold staff receptionsReturn a “We prayed for you” note in response to prayer requestsThe point is this: A warm handshake at the end of a service is not enough to help someone feel like they truly belong.Create Opportunities for Real RelationshipsRelationships are the glue that holds a church together.Research shows that the more friends a person has in a congregation, the less likely they are to become inactive or leave. In one survey of 400 church dropouts, more than 75 percent said they left because they didn’t feel anyone cared whether they were there or not.It’s a myth that people must know everyone in the church to feel connected. The average church member knows about 67 people, whether the church has 200 or 2,000 attending. A member doesn’t have to know everyone. But they do have to know someone.While some friendships form naturally, the friendship factor in assimilation is too important to leave to chance. You can’t just hope people make friends. You must encourage it, plan for it, structure for it, and facilitate it.Emphasize the Corporate Nature of the Christian LifePastor, continually emphasize that we belong together.Preach it. Teach it. Talk about it one-on-one.We need each other. We are a family. We are connected. We are one body.When people feel special and supported, they stay. And when they stay, they grow.Belonging doesn’t happen accidentally. It happens because leaders make it a priority. It happens because someone notices the newcomer. Because someone makes the call. Because someone plans the event. Because someone creates the space for friendships to form.You can’t force fellowship, but you can cultivate it.And when you do, you’ll build more than programs. You’ll build a church family where people don’t just attend; they belong.This article is adapted from chapter 17 of The Purpose Driven Church.

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